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19th-Mar-2013 03:20 pm
Inara
Hi All,

Just wanted to give an update on the post I made on Sunday: http://pregnant.livejournal.com/17527408.html#comments


Sunday night I started bleeding more and clotting. I knew it was not good news but I kept a positive attitude. On Monday I called the doctor at 8am and explained what was happening. At about 2:30pm they told me I would need an ultrasound on Tuesday. By that time the bleeding was bad and the clots were worse. There was still no cramping. I went this afternoon to the ultrasound and found out that I lost the baby. i had a feeling that this was what happened but it is still hard. Thank you all for the advice on Sunday. Here is to hoping in a few months time I will be able to say that I am pregnant again.
Comments 
19th-Mar-2013 07:41 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry hun.
20th-Mar-2013 12:44 am (UTC)
Thank you so much.
19th-Mar-2013 08:22 pm (UTC)
Aww I'm sorry hun..
20th-Mar-2013 12:45 am (UTC)
Thank you so much.
19th-Mar-2013 08:46 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry :(
20th-Mar-2013 12:46 am (UTC)
Thank you. It means a lot to know I have so many people who care.
19th-Mar-2013 09:42 pm (UTC)
*hugs* I'm so sorry for your loss.
20th-Mar-2013 12:47 am (UTC)
Thank you for the ehug! *hug*
19th-Mar-2013 09:54 pm (UTC)
I am so sorry. There is no easy way to deal with a loss - be kind to yourself. Hugs.
20th-Mar-2013 12:48 am (UTC)
Thank you for the kind words.
19th-Mar-2013 09:58 pm (UTC)
:: hugs :: :( It's a loss, no matter how early so definitely don't feel like you have to hold it in or anything. I had a chemical aka early mc the cycle before this one, I was like 4-5wks - I'd gotten two positive hpts and then 48 hours later started bleeding. This early you may not have much more than af-type cramping. Anyway, I ended up not going anywhere for a week. I felt more disappointment than anything myself because I had been so excited.

I will say my cycle was a bit wonky the month after. I'm usually very regular (set your calendar by me-regular) and I was tracking with charting... I ended up not ovulating until cycle day 41 (usually I ovulate around cd17-22). It was disconcerting to say the least but I ended up pregnant on that weird cycle, so it was worth the wait.

I'm sorry that you lost your baby :(
20th-Mar-2013 12:54 am (UTC)
Thank you for the hugs. My first pregnancy was a chemical pregnancy, at about 4 weeks along as well. And the next month (which was also a weird cycle for me) I was pregnant with my daughter who is now two. That is so strange that we had a similar situation.

The kind words are so nice to hear. I think the hardest part for me is that a week after I found out I was pregnant this time, we found out that my sister would need brain surgery (again) to remove the rest of a tumor or else should would go into a coma. This was very very hard on me and I know my stress levels were very high. I told her before her surgery that I was pregnant and we were even looking at a new house. She pulled through the surgery but I have not told her yet about this loss. That will make this even harder because she was so excited.
19th-Mar-2013 10:23 pm (UTC)
So sorry for your loss. It's not a fun club to be in, but it's a big one. I wish you a healthy pregnancy soon. I had an early loss last October and we got pregnant again in December, and so far all is well. In that moment I didn't feel like it, but it's likely you will be able to have a successful pregnancy in the future. In the meantime get the care you need physically and emotionally. I wish you well.
20th-Mar-2013 12:54 am (UTC)
Thank you so much for the well wishes. They really mean the world to me. I know I can always come here and talk to people who are so caring when I am feeling down.
19th-Mar-2013 11:34 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry for your loss.
20th-Mar-2013 12:55 am (UTC)
Thank you very much. It has been a tough day, but it will get better.
20th-Mar-2013 01:40 am (UTC)
Yes. I promise it will. It will take time though. Just do your best to be gentle with yourself in the meantime.
20th-Mar-2013 02:56 am (UTC)
Oh man, I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope you are doing okay!
21st-Mar-2013 06:37 pm (UTC)
I am doing better everyday. Thank you for the support.
20th-Mar-2013 01:24 pm (UTC)
Oh, hon... I'm so sorry for your loss. <3
21st-Mar-2013 06:37 pm (UTC)
Thank you!
20th-Mar-2013 04:45 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sending positive thoughts your way.
21st-Mar-2013 06:37 pm (UTC)
Positive thoughts are great. Thank you so much.
21st-Mar-2013 05:04 pm (UTC)
I am so sorry about your loss. We had loss in January (10 weeks) and while it was very hard, I found keeping busy helped. I needed a D&E(we found out on a Monday and I had the procedure on a Friday) so the days before that i kept busy and then afterwards I took a few days to be with my husband and just let it all out whenever and however. I went back to my normal schedule on Monday and have had times of tears and upset but it has been getting better. *HUGE HUGS*
21st-Mar-2013 06:41 pm (UTC)
I am sorry for your loss as well. 10 weeks is a long time and I am sure it was not easy at all. *MASSIVE HUGE HUGS* I think we could both just use some R&R and love form our hubbies. :)
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