Pregnancy as a kink of some kind?
However, in the past week, I've gotten hit on several times by men who just didn't seem to understand that when I declined invitations, that I actually meant NO. I work as a third shift front desk clerk at a motel. We have a night window and lock the lobby at night so I have no actual physical contact with anyone. Several times on my shifts, during the process of checking-in men, I've been asked to "come hang out' in their room. Men have asked me if they could buy me something to eat. I've been asked to unlock the doors to the lobby (a couple times when I've said I cannot "hang out" because I'm WORKING). I've emphatically said no every time.
I'm married and I always wear my ring. I've even told the guys I am married but they usually keep hitting on me until I have to get rude and walk away from the night window.
What's the deal? Could it be because I'm showing how pregnant I am (I'm 30 weeks). My mom once told me she got hit on a lot when she was pregnant. I thought she was kidding me or something. Is this real? Are there like pregnancy hormones coming out of me that make men attracted more than usual to me?? IDEK. Maybe it's just a coincidence that this is happening so frequently.
I won't be able to check this post until Thursday night because I'm off work and have no internet access until then. I'm hoping some of you can shed some light on this for me. :) If anything, you can share funny or weird stories about getting hit on?
Admins, I have no idea how to tag this. Sorry!
EDIT: Thanks to everyone who commented! I feel a lot more comfortable with what seems to be going on now that I know that some guys just really are attracted to pregnant women. :) I'm just going to enjoy the attention (as long as the guys back off when I say I'm not interested) and not worry about it.